When Nik takes the camera outside…

We get lots of pictures of Ellie!

See the hair? It’s over her ears!

That’s the, “Show me your teeth,” smile!

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Our Chickens ARE Happy, Even Though We Eat Their Eggs

A couple weeks ago, I was listening to the Diane Rehm Show while sewing shades.  Her guest was Jenny Brown, and the topic of the show was, “The Lucky Ones: My Passionate Fight for Farm Animals.”

While I had much to agree with the guest about, particularly her passion for seeing all animals treated humanely, I was dismayed by her insistence that there were no happy chickens who produced eggs for purchase.  She insisted that either chickens were free to roam (with no one eating their eggs) or they were in incredibly cramped cages under hostile, inhumane conditions.  She maintained that the only way chickens could be happy would be if humans did not eat their eggs (i.e if we were all vegans).

I’ve seen the chickens that lay our eggs.  They have the run of our farmer’s orchard so they have an endless supply of insects to eat.  They are never caged and live just about a perfect a life as a chicken can live.  In fact, the only reason they get to live this life is because they do produce eggs and therefore, they are commercially valuable to our farmer.

We believe passionately (as does Ms. Brown) that every animal deserves to be treated humanely.  However, she does a disservice to the many, many small farmers who are trying to do the right thing in raising their farm animals by insisting that they too are torturing their chickens because they collect their eggs.

She also hampers her mission by insisting that the only solution to the chicken crisis is for us all to become vegans.  This is not going to happen.  People are going to continue to eat eggs.  It would be better and more effective for her to advocate for better conditions for chickens, for the rights of small producers to sell eggs, and for education of all egg-eaters about the eggs that they are eating.

Chickens lay eggs, regardless of whether or not anyone eats them.  Ms. Brown, you may disagree philosophically with the idea of eating another animal’s offspring.  But don’t try to back up that claim by saying that I am torturing chickens by choosing to eat their eggs.

You don’t know our farmer, Henry.

You don’t know his chickens.

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Shopping is WAY More Fun…

…when you have an Ellie-sized cart to push around!

I wish you could have heard the giggles of sheer delight echoing all through the store!

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My Sabbath Quandary

Nik and I try to honor the Sabbath by resting as best we can.  We take the day off from using the Internet (and our computer).  We also try to get all our necessary work done on Saturday so that on Sunday we can just rest and relax.  We don’t always succeed in this but we do try.  More often than not, after we come home from church, Ellie takes a nap and Nik plays tennis with someone.

I love to sew – it’s resting and relaxing for me.  I also love listening to NPR and particularly love the shows on Sunday (like Prairie Home Companion and The Splendid Table).  Sewing while listening to the radio is the perfect activity for this introvert to do during that free time on Sunday.

There’s one problem.  Sewing is also work for me.  I always (always!) have a very long list of projects that I need to get accomplished.  I continually feel the pressure to get that sewing done.  This is not restful or relaxing.

So what to do?  How to solve this quandary?

My solution has been to choose a project to sew on Sundays that is fun and doesn’t actually have to get finished.  In my case, I decided to start sewing a Christmas tree skirt.  I’ve wanted to make one for a long time but never remember to work on it until December, when I have far too much other sewing to do.  I feel no pressure to get it done though (because we’ve survived without one for five years!) so I’m just having fun slowly making my way through it.  I’m making this tree skirt and so far I’ve finished all three tree blocks.

If it’s done by Christmas, great.  If not, it will most likely be done for Christmas 2013.

So that’s how I’ve solved my Sabbath quandary.  I’m not sure that it’s a perfect solution but it’s working for me for right now.  How about you?  How do you think through how to spend the Sabbath?

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KIOS: Eating, Part 9: Grains/Legumes (the details)

This post is part of my series, “Kickin’ It Old Skool: Why and How We Are Old-Fashioned” or KIOS for short.  If you’re new to the series, please read my disclaimer before continuing on.  I’m keeping a table of contents to this series here so you can see what I’ve already written about and what more there is to come.

This particular category of food is really evolving for us because I’m in the process of learning about soaking/pre-fermenting/sprouting grains and legumes (in order to make them more easily digested and nutritious).  So here is what we eat and why in this category but I’ll probably have to revisit this topic in a couple months!

Grains:

Wheat Flour: 
What:  whole wheat flour.  We buy it from Union Mills Homestead.  You can see our most recent trip there in this post.  We usually buy 70-80 pounds of flour at a time, which lasts us about 6-7 months.
Why:  We prefer to buy our whole wheat flour freshly ground because WW flour can go rancid very quickly.  The miller grinds the flour and puts it into the freezer immediately, which is also where we store our flour.  We also, as you may know by now, prefer to support local businesses and this is a really cool one!  Finally, I vastly prefer the quality of this flour to any WW flour I can buy at a store.  My bread turns out so much better when I use this.  Basically, it’s like using freshly-ground flour.  Some day we’ll probably get a flour grinder but until then, we love this flour and Ivan, the miller!
What:  All-purpose white flour and white bread flour.  I buy the King Arthur brand from the grocery store.
Why:  King Arthur is a employee-owned cooperative, their flour is very good quality, and they do lots of great outreach in terms of educating the public.

Other Flours and Grains:
What:  buckwheat, rye, cornmeal.  We buy these from Union Mills also.
Why:  see above for WW flour!
What:  any other specialty flours plus other grains like oats and oat bran, brown rice (we like both brown jasmine and brown basmati), quinoa, millet, bulgar, etc.  I buy from in bulk from our local health food store, Nature’s Pantry.
Why:  I can buy in small amounts plus Sam, the owner, is now my friend and she helps me when Ellie is keeping my hands full!

Legumes:

What:  lentils (red, green, yellow), beans (garbanzo, kidney, navy, black, Great Northern, etc).  I buy all of this in bulk from Nature’s Pantry (see above).
Why:  See above for why we specifically buy this at Nature’s Pantry.  We buy beans in bulk rather than in the can because I can buy organic beans this way at a fraction of the cost of what even conventional beans would be in the can.  Also, beans are so easy to cook!

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It is more expensive for us to buy the whole wheat flour from Union Mills rather than from the grocery store.  It is more expensive for me to buy grains and legumes in bulk from Sam rather than buying them in bulk on the Internet.  It is NOT more expensive when compared to buying prepared food at the grocery store (like bread, canned beans, etc.) and so it really does even out.  Absolute cost is also not our only consideration when buying food (as you may have noticed).  I’m planning to address the cost issue more extensively later in this “Eating” series because I know that paying for food is a big issue.

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10 Years!

Ten years ago today, I stepped off of a plane, having just flown through the night and day and across the country.  My good friend from college and new roommate, Kristen, picked me up at the airport and we drove to our new apartment in Charles Village and my new life in Baltimore.

It was in the 90s, the humidity was oppressive, and the region was in a severe drought.  I wanted to go home.  I was seriously questioning my sanity.  I’d become pretty bored with my job (the first I’d gotten post-college) so I’d quit, left my family, shipped all my stuff across the county, and moved to a new city to be my friend’s roommate as she started grad school.   I did have a great roommate and a beautiful apartment.  What I didn’t have was any other friends or a job or even an idea for what I wanted to do with my life.

So the heat was enough to make this Alaskan girl say, “No thanks – I’m going home.”

Thankfully, I stayed.  After a long, seemingly endless search (really only two and a half months), I ended up working as the volunteer coordinator for a local Habitat for Humanity affiliate.  I eventually made friends, found a church, and soon my life felt pretty great.

But I still didn’t intend to live in Baltimore long-term.  (Here’s when I said living in B-more for four years felt like a long time!)

And then I made some friends who were ESOL teachers and I found out that you didn’t have to be fluent in another language to teach ESOL.  And I found out that I could do my grad degree in a year plus a couple months.  I realized that being an ESOL teacher would satisfy my love for working with kids, my desire to work for justice, my interest in the world at large.  So I quit my job, blitzed grad school, graduated, and miraculously, found a job in one of the best middle schools in Baltimore County, with an amazing ESOL department.

Those women taught me, mothered me, helped me become a teacher, and helped me survive those first couple incredibly tough years.

But I still didn’t intend to live in Baltimore long-term.

Well, then I met this guy at church. (I’m glad I found that church!)  He was cute and fun and was coming to Alaska with his friends for a trip!  So we went on a date (which I didn’t know was a date) and then when they came to Alaska, he met all my family and my family decided that he was the one for me and I should marry him.  To which I replied, “Perhaps a second date would be a good idea.  Just because I’m 29 doesn’t mean that I have to marry the first guy I go on a date with in nine years.” So we went on many more dates!  (He’s the reason I wasn’t recovering from jet lag so quickly.)

They were right.  We got married!

And then we had a baby!  (Here’s some foreshadowing of that event in 2007!)

And now we’re having another baby!

And now, somehow, I’ve lived here ten years and I think I finally have to admit that I’ve put down pretty deep roots here in Maryland, in the East Coast.  I still can’t make myself say that I’m a Marylander because, well, I’m an Alaskan and I just can’t change that.  But I can say with pride that I’m a Baltimorean and I love living here.

I may complain about the heat in the summer and lack of snow in the winter and the absolute lack of real mountains.  But I am truly blessed by an amazing husband and daughter, wonderful friends, a great church, and a nice neighborhood to live in.

Here’s to many more wonderful years!

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This Is How We Count Around Here

Ellie’s new favorite numbers:

one, two, eight, mine!

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Ellie’s Guitar-Playing Debut

Ellie was going a bit crazy the other night so, inspired by this post about family music time, I asked Nik if he would play his guitar for us.  Ellie was immediately enthralled and engaged and we sang happily right up until bedtime!

Ellie even played her own song!

Family Music Time – I highly recommend it!

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The Difference A Nap Makes

Back when Ellie was about a month old, I wrote about the difference an hour makes when a little baby is willing to take a nap out of your arms.  I was so happy to just have a little free time to myself!

Now, I’m experiencing another slightly less positive effect of a changing nap.  For the last couple weeks, Ellie has been napping from around 10:00-12:00 in the morning.  Note:  I am NOT complaining about a two-hour nap!  But, the morning (rather than afternoon) nap causes a few problems for me.

1. All of Ellie’s little friends nap in the afternoon.  So this makes it difficult for us to get together with and makes me feel a little housebound.  After lunch, we’re ready to go have some fun and everyone else is sleeping!

2. The only time I can easily or efficiently blog or sew is during Ellie’s naptime .  This means I’ve been sewing in the morning.  But that uses up my good “It’s morning!  It’s not hot! Let’s get stuff done” energy and by the afternoon, I’m tired and just want to sit around.  Sewing is mostly sitting around (plus it’s fun!) so I don’t mind doing that in the afternoon.  But cleaning house?  Accomplishing anything else?  Not much of that is getting done around here.

3.  All the fun stuff for kids is scheduled in the morning (like story time at the library or the singalong at the local bookstore).  I was just thinking I should start taking Ellie to that kind of stuff because she’s starting to really love interacting with other kids and getting out of the house.  Sorry Ellie!

Poor me.  🙂  I guess I just need to develop a little bit of discipline and change my own schedule.  The problem is that I’m getting more and more pregnant, which means I just want to nap all afternoon.  On the plus side, this does mean that Ellie is perfectly happy to go to bed at 7:30 rather than staying up until 10:00!

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KIOS: Eating, Part 8b: Fruits and Vegetables (the “why”)

This post is part of my series, “Kickin’ It Old Skool: Why and How We Are Old-Fashioned” or KIOS for short.  If you’re new to the series, please read my disclaimer before continuing on.  I’m keeping a table of contents to this series here so you can see what I’ve already written about and what more there is to come.

The topic of fruits and vegetables is so wide that I separated it into two posts.  Last week’s post was about the more practical “what we eat” and “where we get the food” side of the equation. This week, I have more to share about why we’ve made the decisions we have about what fruits and vegetables to eat.  

Over the past 4 1/2 years, we’ve made many changes to the kinds of fruits and vegetables we eat, along with where and how we buy them.  Here are a few of the “why” answers behind what we do.

1. Why we only buy fruits and vegetables (F/V) in season:  F/V taste far better and are far more nutritious when eaten in season.  Generally, when you buy F/V  out of season, they also have been flown in from a significant distance and the amount of energy needed to ripen them, keep them fresh, and transport them is astronomical.  Additionally, there are far too many horror stories about how migrant workers are treated to pick all of those F/V.  So for gastronomical, nutritional, and ethical reasons, we prefer to eat F/V only in season.

For example, have you ever eaten a winter tomato?  They are generally tasteless and mushy plus they’ve usually been transported in from thousands of miles away, heavily sprayed and picked by severely mistreated workers.  One of the first decisions we made when we started to change the way we eat was to never buy a fresh tomato in the winter again.

2. Why we buy lots of extra F/V and then can or freeze them:  We prefer to give our money to local farmers rather than big corporations.  We prefer to eat food that has been picked and processed at the height of ripeness.  We don’t mind the extra work involved in preparing the F/V because during the winter, it’s supremely easy to use them.

3. Why we aren’t concerned with the energy we use to power our freezers We haven’t noticed a significant different in our electricity bill since we started using our freezers.  So we know that the amount of electricity we’re using is fairly nominal.  Also, the electricity we use is certainly less than the energy that is required to bring frozen F/V from wherever they’re processed to our local grocery store and then keep them frozen until we take them home (where we still have to pay to keep them in the freezer until we use them).

4. Why we get most of our fruit from organic farms:  Although we don’t strictly follow this, we do try to pay attention to the Dirty Dozen list and limit our consumption of the most heavily contaminated F/V.  Our favorite fruits to preserve (blueberries, apples, peaches, pears, strawberries) are high on that list.  We’re grateful to have places where we can obtain organic fruit.  If we couldn’t, we would heavily limit our consumption of those fruits.  (See here for our explanation of why we pick strawberries where we do.)

5.  Why we don’t eat tropical fruit (yes, that means we don’t even eat bananas):  There is no way to get them even close to local (as in even from within a thousand miles).  More importantly, working conditions for banana workers are atrocious and pesticide use is high and we prefer to keep our money from supporting those things.

6.  Why we make exceptions for certain things (like fresh ginger, lemons, limes, very rarely avocados, and occasionally oranges):  We use a relatively small amount of ginger, lemons, and limes but their flavors makes a huge difference to the kinds of food we like to cook.  We very rarely indulge in avocados (maybe 5-6 times a year?) and do try to at least buy the Florida avocados when we do.  Sometimes, we just want some guacamole!  The same is true for oranges:  we only buy Florida citrus and try to only buy oranges in late winter when we’ve run out of other fruit and our bodies are desperate for a little Vitamin C.

7:  Why we continue to buy non-local storage crops from the farmers’ market in late winter (and why we don’t buy any other F/V from the grocery store):  Onions and garlic are two other crucial items in our kitchen.  We prefer to give our money to the local farmers rather than big chains and so that’s why we continue to buy non-local storage crops (which generally at least come from the US) at the farmers’ market rather than not buy them at all or buy them at the supermarket.

8.  Why we prioritize buying locally over buying “certified organic”:  I answered this question more fully in this post but essentially, we prefer to talk to our local farmers and find out how they raise their crops rather than just look for a sticker which tells us that it’s organic.

9.  Why we sometimes make exceptions to all our rules:  Here’s an example rather than an all-encompassing answer:  This past May, I was pregnant and very sick in my first trimester.  Oranges made me feel better.  I ate A LOT of oranges for about a month, far more than we usually ever buy.  We thought through the decision and mindfully decided that it was a good thing for me to eat oranges, for a season.  Sometimes, there are compelling reasons to do something differently than what we usually do.

10.  Why we love having a garden:  We can eat as many tomatoes as we want all summer long, for free!  Sadly, however, our tomatoes have been a gigantic FAIL this summer – as in, we haven’t eaten a single home-grown tomato, not even a little one.  Sad, sad, sad – we’re blaming our way too busy spring that meant we planted our plants a month late as well as the tomato blight that’s sweeping the East Coast.  (I just needed a tenth item to make the list feel complete!)

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Ellie didn’t eat a banana until she was about 21 months old.  We were at a friend’s house and she was offered a banana so she ate one.  I rather perversely didn’t want Ellie to eat bananas when she was young just to prove to all the critics that it is possible to feed a young baby without using bananas!

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I know I’ve said this before but to emphasize:  I know we have the luxury of living in a climate/environment where we can buy (or grow) almost any F/V that we want to eat.  I will be writing more in a few weeks about the different decisions that we would make if we lived in a place where this was not true (such as Alaska).

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More on why we should all avoid eating tomatoes that aren’t locally grown.

About working conditions for banana and pineapple workers.

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