Snow Day!

Although not quite up to Snowmageddon standards (that storm in 2010), we definitely are in the midst of a big snow storm!  It’s been alternately raining and snowing, which doesn’t make for fun shoveling.  It does, however, make for good snowman making! (Most of our snow this winter has been so dry we haven’t been able to build snowmen.  Ellie has learned to ask if the snow is wet or dry!)

003 (800x533)you know things are bad when the [covered] porch looks like this!

005 (533x800)still trying to get off the porch…

004 (800x533)vanished garden beds

007 (800x520)Mark fussing at me because he’s not outside (maybe later, my boy!) 🙂

008 (800x533) (2)009 (800x533)rosy cheeks from shoveling!

Now we’re just waiting for the rest of the snow to arrive!

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So About That Unschooling Thing? (and my new blog money making scheme)

A few months ago, I wrote about our approach to Ellie’s (and Mark’s) education – basically ignoring it.  About a month later, Nik, Ellie, and Mark were sitting outside enjoying a unseasonably warm December afternoon when Ellie asked to draw.  So I brought them out some markers and paper and Ellie asked Nik to write down everyone’s names.  She especially thinks it’s fun to write all our names (like Nik, Niko, Baba, Laura, Baba, etc).

Then she took the marker and wrote this:

047 (800x543)“Elle”

That’s right – she wrote her name. We just about fell over and then we were walking around grinning like fools! 🙂

Since then, she has continued to write her name (usually with lots of horizontal lines in the capital E and always skipping the “i”).  Often, she does it upside-down, but quite accurately.  I guess she’s watched us write her name enough times from the other side of the paper that she can do it upside down too.  And recently, she’s started pointing out every capital E she sees, “Hey, it’s an E!”  So clearly, she’s on her way to literacy and it’s so exciting to watch her teaching herself!

Earlier this week, she told me that she wants to learn how to read.  But then she also already thinks she knows how to read.  She likes to read books to Mark.  Mark’s favorite book is Goodnight Gorilla.  I usually have to read it to him at least 3-4 times before he’s had enough.  So I’m grateful that Ellie likes to read it to him too!

It’s a very long movie, I know, but I love watching her read the whole book and especially watching her put her arm back around him after she turns each page!  So no need to stick it out to the end if you don’t want to! 🙂

It appears that if I announce something on my blog, the opposite comes true.  I announced that we weren’t a tummy time family and then Mark spent MONTHS on his stomach before he learned to sit.  His stomach was absolutely his favorite place to be.  Now I’ve announced that we’re not teaching Ellie anything and so she taught herself.

ANNOUNCING:  my new blog venture

For a small fee, if you’d like something to happen, I’ll be happy to make some kind of pronouncement to the opposite effect and I will guarantee that you’ll get the results you desire!  Any takers? 🙂

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Finish It Up Friday – Update #5 – No More Cuffs!

Over two years ago, my friend Julie found me a great pair of jeans at a thrift store for just a few dollars.  Only problem?  They were longs and I am not that tall (5’4″ to be exact).  So, for two years, I’ve just rolled them up.  This week, finally, I hemmed them, using the original hem method.  It’s a pretty nifty way to hem jeans and end up with a finished product that doesn’t scream, “I’ve been hemmed!”  I do wish I’d hemmed them maybe 1/2 to 1 inch shorter but that’s OK.  They’re much better than they were!

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And in other WIP news, I also fixed our bathroom curtain, finished the back of Mark’s quilt, and took down the living room Roman shades in order to fix them.  So that means I’m down to six WIPs, with two of them already in process.  Hooray for a shorter list!

I’m linking up with “Finish It Up Friday” at Crazy Mom Quilts.

The [Really Getting Shorter Now] List of WIPs (as of 2/7/14)

  1. fix the living room shades (annoyingly falling apart)
  2. Ellie’s doll hair (it’s been over a year and Ellie’s not bald anymore so I really can’t justify her doll’s baldness anymore.)
  3. Mark’s birthday quilt
  4. dining room shades (they’re so close to being done and have just been sitting for close to 18 months)
  5. pillow for Ellie (not technically a WIP because I haven’t started it but it’s been on the “to sew” list for months)
  6. hem new corduroy pants
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Things Mark Has Done That Ellie Still Hasn’t (and probably never will)

  1. unplugged the refrigerator
  2. pulled dirt out of my plants all over the floor
  3. pulled a floor lamp over (which thankfully missed him)
  4. pulled the vacuum cleaner (also missed him)
  5. figured out how to open the cabinet door underneath the sink, pushed his hand inside, and then fussed at me because he couldn’t get to the non-child safe bottles inside.  (This door does have a safety latch on it but Ellie never put it to the test!)
  6. filled the laundry hamper with non-washable items

027 (800x533)two pens (good ones!), a puzzle piece and a block; not pictured because I had already taken them out: a board book and a ruler

Needless to say, we’ve done a lot more baby-proofing around here and there’s probably more to come.  Is this because of gender or personality? 🙂

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Mark Wears His Mended Pants and Plays the Kazoo

It’s a good thing I fixed his pants.  They’re going to be too small soon!

034 (800x533)Thanks to Aunt Nikki for his awesome sweater!

040 (800x545) 041 (800x533)Yes, those are tears in his eyes, poor guy.  He’d just gotten over some sadness.

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Here he is, in action!

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Mark In Tie Dye

As I slowly work my way through a year’s worth of pictures, I’ll occasionally be posting some from Mark’s first year of life, especially what I like to call “the lost first six months.”  Poor guy – he didn’t get nearly as much blogging documentation as Ellie did!

This tie-dyed onesie came in a bag of hand-me-downs for Ellie.  Nik used a picture of Ellie in it to show his students during Spirit Week at his school on Tie Dye Day!  So, naturally, we had to capture Mark in it as well.

005 (533x800)He’s so little! (at 2.5 weeks old)

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Finish It Up Friday – Update #4 – Finally, The Dress Has Six Buttons!

I came disastrously close to not having anything to share this week.  I used up my weekend sewing time on two new projects (these baby blankets) and then I’ve had a sad, sick boy on my hands this week.  Thankfully, this morning, he and Ellie decided to play around me happily while I sewed and I was able to finish up two projects.

First, I put in the last buttonhole on Ellie’s dress and sewed on the last button (which was thankfully not lost).  I couldn’t fit the placket under the buttonhole foot and so hadn’t done it.  But then, I was reading the manual (shocking helpful, manuals are) and figured out that I can actually push my presser foot lever UP and it raises the presser foot higher!  This is an awesome feature that I wish I had known about for the past five years!

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Second, I suppose this isn’t technically a WIP finish because it was already finished once.  For some reason, the crotch sections of both sides of Mark’s reversible pants were pulling apart.  So I had to seam rip one hem, pull them inside out, re-sew both seams, and then re-hem them.  And now he can wear these again!

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I’m linking up with “Finish It Up Friday” at Crazy Mom Quilts.

The [Finally Getting Shorter] List of WIPs (as of 1/31/14)

  1. fix the living room shades (annoyingly falling apart)
  2. Ellie’s doll hair (it’s been over a year and Ellie’s not bald anymore so I really can’t justify her doll’s baldness anymore.)
  3. Mark’s birthday quilt
  4. dining room shades (they’re so close to being done and have just been sitting for close to 18 months)
  5. pillow for Ellie (not technically a WIP because I haven’t started it but it’s been on the “to sew” list for months)
  6. fix the bathroom curtain
  7. hem new corduroy pants
  8. hem jeans
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Classics Club, Book #1: Pride and Prejudice

This is my first post for The Classics Club.  I’ll be reading one classic book a month for the next 4-5 years.  Here’s the list of all the books I’ll be reading.  I’ll try not to include too many spoilers in my review but I may need to discuss some in order to fully review the book. I’ll warn you if I’m going to mention one.  

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen

003 (800x533)He nurses, I read!  (And yes, I actually bought that book in England in 1999, when it only cost me 99p, or around $1.50 at the time.  What a deal!)

  • Year Written: 1813
  • Re-read? Or new to me?:  Re-read (maybe my 3rd or 4th time?)
  • Number of Pages: 299
  • Date Finished: January 18, 2014
  • Number of Days it took me to read it: 3
  • Page/Day ratio:  100:1
  • Would I want to read this in English class?: YES!

Review:  I don’t remember loving Pride and Prejudice as much as I did this time around.  Even though I knew how the book would end, I found myself racing through it, just wanting to read the words again to find out, “What will happen to Elizabeth?  Will Jane and Bingley ever find love?  Who will fix the problems that the scoundrel Wickham has caused?”

Although I haven’t been contributing to the discussions over at the Motherhood and Jane Austen Book Club, it was interesting to read this book again through the lens of motherhood.  In particular, I thought more about the mothers who are not mentioned: the mothers of Mr. Darcy and Mr. Bingley.  Particularly in Mr. Bingley’s case, why did Mr. Bingley turn out so wonderfully and his sisters so horribly?  Was it because they have a fabulous father and a terrible mother?  Or vice versa?  And how did Mr. Darcy’s sister cope with losing her mother when she was young?

I found Mr. Collins to be particularly absurd and funny on this re-read.  [SPOILER] I was laughing out loud at his refusal to believe that Elizabeth was actually refusing his offer of marriage.  His insistence that she was just being coy and trying to make his love for her even strong was both so sad and so laughable at the same time.

Finally, although Mrs. Bennett is usually seen as a money-grabbing insensitive crazy mother, I found myself feeling really sympathetic towards her.  If you had five daughters who had no way to support themselves and a husband whose income would disappear upon his death, wouldn’t you be out to marry off your girls as best as you could, too?  Her situation felt so precarious and helpless to me, perhaps because I now have children of my own to consider.

I definitely enjoyed my re-read of this classic.  And now, onto my next book!

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January Sewing: Two Baby Blankets (and some thoughts about mastery and 10,000 hours)

Here are the two projects I referred to in this post as the “new sewing I’m allowed to do because they have deadlines.”

For our friends Joella and Bryan, who are having a baby boy:

002 (800x534)because who doesn’t need some bright orange in their life, right? 🙂

and our friends Caitlin and Rob, who are having a little girl:

005 (800x534)I love that coral solid!

Usually I try to combine a small print with a larger, bolder print but this time, solids seemed to fit these two prints the best.

Also, in related news, I was lying in bed Friday evening, nursing Mark, trying to keep myself awake, thinking about sewing projects (as I always do, that and blog posts) and all of a sudden had this brilliant idea for how to cut out these blankets.  I’ll try to take pictures the next time I cut one out and write about it, but essentially, I probably cut my cutting time in half by my innovation.  How many blankets have I made in the last 5 years?  I’m just guessing here but 30? 40? 50?  SO MANY!  And I’ve been doing it a MUCH harder way this whole time!  I’ve written about the 10,000 hours concept before (especially related to sewing for me) but again, there really is something to the idea that it takes a long time to achieve mastery over something.  I’m not even going to tell you how I was cutting them the old way because you’ll probably say, “oh, that’s how I’ve always done it,” and then I’ll feel silly.  But I will show you my new way, which is awesome!!  It will just have to wait until another baby is getting close to being born.  🙂

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Recipe: Winter Squash Risotto (with my apologies to Meggan)

This winter squash risotto is amazingly good.  You might call it a “gateway risotto” because once you eat it, all of a sudden you’ll start making all kinds of risotto.  Although it requires a lot of stirring, it’s surprising easy to make and SO delicious.  It’s comfort food to me now.  My sister-in-law, has been asking me for this recipe for a long time.  Sorry it’s taken me so long, Meggan!

Although this recipe used to be our default side dish for fancy meals (and so we rarely made it), now we even make risotto for an easy meal on a Saturday night.  Yes, we’re addicted (enough to go out into a snowstorm to get more arborio rice!)

If you want to try other risottos, we’ve also loved yukina savoy risotto (good for any hearty green and with any kind of seafood), parsnip risotto with spinach (my favorite, maybe even more than this recipe), broccoli and cheddar risotto (in the oven – so EASY!), and endive risotto.

033 (800x525)risotto, swimming in pumpkin – amazing!

Winter Squash Risotto
Recipe adapted from one that Nik originally got from a cooking class
Serves 4-5-ish (depends on how much you love risotto)

3 C chicken/turkey broth (or vegetable broth if you want it to be vegan)
Bring to boil in a saucepan and then reduce the heat so it’s just simmering.  Cover so that it doesn’t evaporate.  (You can do this while you’re prepping the other ingredients and cooking the initial stages.)

1 T olive oil
1 medium onion, finely chopped
2 cloves of garlic, finely minced or pressed through a garlic press
Heat the oil in a large sauce pan over medium heat.  Add the onion and cook, stirring occasionally until the onion is tender but not brown, 5-7 minutes or so.  Once the onion is tender, add the onion and stir until it’s nicely fragrant, about a minute more.

1 C uncooked Arborio rice*
Stir in the rice, stirring constantly, until it starts to smell toasty, about 2 minutes.

½ C dry white wine**
Add to the pan and stir it in until it has mostly absorbed/evaporated.  This will happen very quickly.

2 ½ C cooked pureed winter squash, like pumpkin or butternut squash***
1 tsp fresh thyme leaves or 1/2 tsp dried thyme (optional, if you have it)
salt to taste (The original recipe doesn’t call for any, probably because it assumes that you’ll be using pre-made broth which is usually salted.  I make my own, with no salt.  So I usually add at least 1 tsp at this point and then keep tasting for salt.)
Stir in and stir occasionally until it’s bubbling.  This will probably happen quickly.

Turn the heat to medium-low.  Stir in 1 C of the hot broth.  From here on out, you’ll be ladling in hot broth, stirring occasionally until the rice has absorbed most of it (but not all), ladling in more broth, stirring occasionally, until the rice is tender but still slightly firm to the bite.  You may not need to use all the broth.  The whole mixture should be very creamy.  It will probably take 15-20 minutes to get to this point but I find that this varies widely depending on how high I have the heat, how often I’m stirring, etc.  Some risotto experts say you should stir frequently.  I find a stir every minute or two is good enough and I usually prep the rest of dinner while I’m stirring.  (If you’re more of a visual person, this video gives a fairly good overview of the risotto making process.)

½ C grated Parmesan cheese
1 T butter
This step is entirely optional.  Up until this point, the recipe can be vegan (if you use vegetable broth) and is also dairy-free.  If you want to add the cheese and butter, it will make it extra decadent.  One time, Nik forgot to add it and we discovered that we like it better without the cheese and butter.  Because we add the extra pumpkin (see below), it doesn’t need the additional fat.  Your choice on this one!

freshly ground black pepper
salt
Season with  black pepper and salt as needed.  Serve immediately and consider yourself addicted!

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*We buy our Arborio rice at Trader Joe’s but I think it’s fairly easy to find in grocery stores these days.  Just make sure you’re buying the plain rice and not the kind with seasonings added.  And yes, risotto is essentially white rice, which we typically avoid and haven’t eaten in years (except when we’re making sushi).  So my next step in our risotto eating journey is to figure out whole grain alternatives to white Arborio rice.  This has some intriguing ideas.

**I know nothing about wine so I have no advice to give you about what kind of wine to buy for this.  I just go to the wine store, say, “I’m making risotto, it calls for dry white wine, and I don’t want to pay a lot of money,” they suggest something to me and then I buy it, usually for $8-9.  We keep the leftover wine in a jar in the fridge and use it until it’s gone so it usually hangs out for a month or more.  I don’t know if this is acceptable wine practice or not but the risotto always ends up tasting delicious so I guess we’re doing OK! 🙂

***The original recipe only calls for 1 C of cooked squash.  We put in 2 ½ C because that’s how I freeze our squash in the fall.  We love the flavor of a risotto with lots of squash in it.  Feel free to reduce this amount.  You’ll just might need to add more broth.  If you’re using canned pumpkin, I would use the whole can.

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