Love, Your Favorite Barnacle

Dear Mama,

I love you so, so much.  I love you so, so, so, so, so very, very, very much that I never want to leave your side.  And by “never want to leave your side,” I mean you are never allowed to leave my side.  If I feel like walking off (because I can now!), that’s OK but you’re not allowed to do anything on your own.  That’s why I’ve perfected my “twist and lunge” maneuver so that even if you try to distract me with the fishing puzzle and then try to sneak off to do something really fun like start a load of laundry in the basement (my favorite place I’m not allowed to go), I can catch you before you’ve even gotten two inches away.  I love you so much that even if you’re sitting on the floor next to me trying to do something silly like fold laundry, it’s not enough for me to be sitting by you.  Nope – I need to be standing on your leg, with my arms around your neck.  That’s the way I can best show you how much I love you!!

I also love you so much that I want to have lots of quality time with you around the clock.  That’s why I’ve perfected my “sit up and talk at 2:00 am” routine so you’ll have to get out of bed and rock me back to sleep.  Isn’t it super fun?!?!?!

[gross alert]  You do have to admit the “stick close by at all times” routine has come in handy today so that you can make sure to catch all my puking.  Let’s hope that stops soon though because I don’t like it and neither do you.

In short, I’m doing my best to make you understand that you are the most important person in the world to me and therefore you should never do anything else other than pay attention to me.  Am I succeeding?

Love,
Your Favorite Barnacle

P.S. Why do you call me, “my little barnacle,” now? I don’t know what that is!

P.P.S. Thanks for taking this selfie for me.  It’s a perfect example of how I like to hang onto your legs when you’re trying to do something crazy like make dinner in peace.  Don’t you love how cute I am?  You know you’re going to miss this closeness when I’m thirteen and don’t want to talk to you!

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In Honor of Yet ANOTHER Snowstorm Tomorrow…

Here’s some pictures in the snow from last week’s storm!  (And please, another storm? Is this really necessary? It’s starting to feel like Alaska around here!)

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Share and Share Alike

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I could look at these pictures all day!

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Fishing and Threading: Two New Skills

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Mark has made some pretty impressive strides in fine motor coordination over the past few weeks.  I love watching the intense concentration on his face as he pushes himself past what he can easily do and then accomplishes something new!

First, the fishing puzzle (from our dear friends up in western NY who we don’t get to see nearly often enough):

004 (800x533) 032 (800x534)standing or balanced precariously – what skill!

as narrated by Ellie as she made a drawing for Nik

This set of blocks and laces were Ellie’s present “from Mark” (aka Yiayia) when Ellie met Mark for the first time.  We have a little friend, J, who LOVES to thread them onto the strings.  He’s 2.5 so maybe Mark wants to be like him?

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The best part of this video?  The absolute silence.  I’ll take total engrossment any day!

Now, if only he would decide to be interested in doing these things when I want him to be (such as when I need to make dinner)!

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Hairstyles

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Somehow, I made it to age 37 without ever trying to French-braid my own hair.  The other night, while the kids were in the bath, I was just idly playing around and figured it out!  And now, it’s totally my go-to hairstyle!  Ellie asked me to braid hers a couple days ago and although her hair is way too short and fine for it to stay in, we did it!

019 (800x533) (2)Isn’t that the cutest little braid you’ve ever seen?

020 (800x533)Not perfect but I’m getting better.

And, not wanting to leave out our little boy, hope you enjoy his latest style too!

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She Comes By Her Red Cheeks Naturally

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I used to get blazing red cheeks whenever I was too hot or embarrassed (infuriatingly so).  I’ve grown out of it to some extent but not completely.  And Ellie seems to have inherited this trait from me!  As Mark grows a bit bigger, I’m curious to see if he’ll get them too.

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218 (800x533)pictures taken by Nik, from Easter Sunday, March 2013 – they’re so little!

ETA – And just after pressing publish on this, I realized that I already blogged these pictures almost a year ago.  Hope you don’t mind seeing them twice!

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A Giveaway in Celebration of 1,000 Posts!

Sometime in the beginning of January, I published my 1,000th post on this blog.*  I had grand plans of this post being exactly my 1000th post but in all the flurry of posting about Christmas sewing, reading, and Mark’s birthday, and then life, it slipped by me.  (This is technically my 1,045th post!)

So, in celebration of more than 1,000 posts, I’m giving something away!

In the past year or so, I’ve heard from a couple readers who have been reading a long time but haven’t ever left a comment.  In the blog world, that’s called, “lurking,” and I don’t mind that at all.  But still, I figured I’d encourage you to de-lurk with a prize!

The prize: something made by me (like cookies, a loaf of bread, something sewn, or something canned) OR a lesson in something I know how to do (i.e. sewing, canning, baking) (if you live close enough to me to come over for a lesson).  After I pick the winner, you and I can talk about what you’d like to have.  Ultimately, your prize will be at my discretion, based on how crazy my life is, whether or not I have to mail it, etc.  International readers are welcome to enter too but your prize will have to be something lightweight that fits in an envelope – so I’ll probably make you some cards or something like that.  (Card making is another love of mine but one that I don’t think I’ve ever blogged about!)

How you enter:  Leave a comment on this post, telling me something you like about my blog or something you wish I’d write more about.  Only comments on this post will count so all my Facebook commenters, find a way to comment on the real blog!

Also, if you have a couple extra minutes, please indulge me by filling out this little survey.  You can get a second chance to enter by leaving another comment, saying “I filled out the survey!”

I’ll leave the giveaway open until Monday, 3/24/14 at 1:30 pm EST.  Now closed!  I’ll post a winner soon!

I’ll choose the winner randomly by some method that may perhaps involve these two cuties:

006 (800x535)Yes, they’re holding hangers.   It’s the only way I could get them to sit still!

I’m looking forward to “meeting” some of you for the first time and hearing from many more of you!  And thank you for reading!

*I blogged for almost five years with Xanga before starting this blog.  That site is now inactive but I just recently found out that I can import all my Xanga posts into WordPress.  So hopefully, this blog will soon have many, many more than 1,000 posts!

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My Amazingly Awesome Baby Blanket Cutting Shortcut Breakthrough

So, as it turns out, I actually have four more baby blankets I need to make (even though I’ve already made six in the last 4 months).  Hooray for babies!  So, while making one last week, I took a few pictures of my new cutting method, which is so much faster, I can’t even believe I used to cut them out the other way.

I used to fold, cut both sides, fold the other dimension, cut both sides, repeat for the other piece, and hope I cut them both exactly the same.  In total, that’s folding four times, cutting eight times.  (I feel crazy even admitting that I used to do it that way!)

My new method folds twice, cuts thrice.  (See, it even rhymes!)  Perhaps you already have this figured out.  But in the event you make lots of flannel baby blankets, and need a cutting shortcut, here’s how you do it!

First, this method assumes that you have a rotary cutter, blade, and mat that measures at least 24×36.  If you only have a smaller mat and you sew a lot, it’s definitely worth buying the larger mat.  They often go on sale for 40-50% off at Joann Fabrics and then they’re not too expensive.  I’m actually getting close to needing a new one, I’ve cut such deep grooves in mine.

This method also assumes that you are using well-ironed one yard cuts of flannel, which are 44″ wide (although it certainly would work for cuts that are longer than a yard).  I highly recommend pre-washing flannel before using it because it shrinks so much (and sometimes seems to shrink inconsistently from one cut to the next).

The Method

1.  Fold your first piece of flannel in half, matching selvedges ant one end (so that you’re splitting the long side in half).  Shake it so that the flannel isn’t clinging to itself and is lying relatively flat.  You will probably discover that your selvedge edges are not matched.  This is because flannel in particular never seems to be cut straight.

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To fix this problem, you’ll need to pull the uneven edge down and over until it meets the selvedge and lies flat at the fold.  This process is called truing up and it’s important to do it anytime you’re cutting anything with a fold so that the edge is straight from end to end (rather with a little curve where it’s not folded true.)  After you’ve done this, carefully smooth out all the wrinkles until the top piece is completely smooth.

012 (800x533)Notice the folded edge (at the top) – it’s lying flat, and there are no ripples in the fold.  You may have to adjust the bottom edges to get the selvedges straight against each other with the top fold perfect. 

Then flip it over and discover that flannel is infuriatingly difficult to work with (particularly for perfectionists) because it sticks to itself and doesn’t smooth out easily.  So smooth out the back side until it’s lying smoothly too.  Then flip it back to the front, smooth that out one more time and set it aside.

013 (800x533) (2) the back of the same piece that looked so smooth in the picture before

2. Repeat this truing up/smoothing step for the second yard of flannel.

3. Place one folded/trued/smoothed piece of flannel on top of the other piece, lining up the folded edge (ignoring the selvedges).  This is the trickiest part of this method because the edges are a little poufy and it’s hard to get them perfect.  Do your best – I usually just fold them down with my big ruler or my hand to see if they’re lined up.  Then smooth out all the layers of fabric until they’re lying flat.  Even though you already did this three times with each piece, the fabric will still catch on itself.  So smooth carefully!

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Also, pay attention to your cut edges, where you probably have some unevenness due to the truing up process.  Just be sure that the short edges of your fabrics are lined up so that you’ll be sure to be cutting through four layers of fabric.  014 (800x531)Smooth the bottom half of the top piece of fabric to make sure it’s not caught on the bottom piece.  (I know, I’m obsessed with smoothing.  But it does help the final product!)

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4.  Finally, you get to make your first two cuts!  (All this set up is worth is because the actual cutting time is minimal.)  Of course, I managed to forget to take a picture of this actual cutting step but it’s easy.  First cut the short ends of the two fabric pieces (i.e. don’t cut off the selvedges yet – opposite the fold).  I usually make my blankets about 30 inches wide so I cut off at the 1″ and 31″ lines on my cutting mat.  This leaves me with two nice scraps which I can use for cloth wipes.  Alternately, you could just cut off as little as needed to have two even sides.

5.  Now cut the bottom (selvedge) edge.  When deciding where to cut, make sure you cut off any words that might be printed along the selvedge edge.  I like to lift up my top piece to make sure I’m avoiding the words on my bottom piece. I generally end up cutting at about 20 or 21″ (i.e. for a 40-42″ blanket).  I have a 6″x24″ ruler, which is pretty big but I still have to move it once, mid-cut, to get the whole bottom edge cut off.  Just use the lines of the ruler to make sure you’re cutting a straight line.

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And there you have it, a beautifully cut out, ready to be sewn baby blanket in just three cuts!  I’m really going to be an impressively efficient baby blanket maker now!

019 (800x533)And yes, sharp eyes may notice I didn’t take my own advice and I managed to leave in some of the words on one end.  No matter – they got eaten up in the seam allowance. 

To actually sew the blanket?  Sew around all four edges, using a 1/2″ seam allowance and leaving a several-inch turning hole in the middle of one of the sides.  Clip the corners, turn right side out, push the corners out with a chopstick or turning tool, iron the edges very carefully, and top stitch to close the turning hole.  I like to do a triple top stitch – at 1/8″, 1/4″, and 3/8″.  It makes a nice, solid edge.

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Embracing the Irish in Me

I am a small percentage Irish and so are they!

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(Their Greek yiayia got them green shirts for today.)

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February Sewing: Pillow Covers for Ellie and Mark (and a bit about choosing a sustainable/ethical pillow)

Almost four years ago, Nik and I bought organic wool pillows for ourselves.  They were definitely a huge investment but it was worth it to us to be sleeping on pillows that are sustainable and good for our health.  (See my review at the end of this if you’re interested.)

When they arrived, the pillow cases were incredibly OVER-stuffed with wool.  We ended up pulling out a couple garbage bags worth of wool before the pillows were flat enough to not give us neck aches.  This made our big investment feel slightly more justifiable!

So, now that Ellie is old enough to want/need a pillow, rather than buying her one, it made sense to use all that extra wool to make an organic wool pillow for her too.  While I was at it, I figured I’d put the assembly line principle in place and make one for Mark too, so that it’s ready when he needs a pillow.

I bought an organic Kona solid in ivory from HoneyBeGood, a store that only sells organic fabric.  After a bit of searching online, their prices seemed to be comparable to most and their shipping was very reasonable.  Plus the order shipped the same day I placed it!

Ellie chose the zippers (invisible for ease of zipping).  I made two pillow cases for each pillow – one to contain the wool and the other one to protect the inside case.  This way, I only have to take off the outside cover for washing occasionally and don’t have to disturb the wool.

002 (800x533)per Ellie’s choice – light blue and bright green for her, bright blue and orange for Mark

First we stuffed the cases with the wool.

003 (800x533)Ellie’s great love – zipping!

Then we inserted the pillow into the second cover.

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Then we added the pillowcase, made by Nana for Ellie’s second birthday!

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007 (800x533) (2)this pillow = not for playing.  We put it up during the day.

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In short, we have not fully loved these pillows.  We love that they come from a renewable, sustainable source .  We love that they aren’t off-gassing dangerous fumes around our heads as we sleep every night.  They are a bit hard to maintain – i.e. if you move them much, the wool shifts, gets lumpy, and then isn’t so comfortable.  The problem is easy but a bit time-consuming to fix.  You just have to pull out the wool, pull all the little pieces apart, and then stuff them back in.

I think that if we didn’t have kids, they’d be fine because they wouldn’t get moved much.  But especially with co-sleeping and babies in our bed, it’s been a bit tricky to keep them comfortable and functional.  So, in summary, I do recommend getting a wool pillow but with reservations.  They’re definitely not as easy to use as a synthetic or down pillow (but they do come without the moral/ethical/environment/heath issues of synthetic or down)!

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