I Went To The Mountains*

We just returned on Sunday from a four-day vacation in the Shenandoah Mountains and it was lovely.  The weather was so cool, a blessed relief from the triple digit temperatures of the week before.  In true Nik and Laura vacation fashion, we didn’t manage to get pictures of all of the adults nor did we manage to take a family picture.  But here are a few to help you get a feel for our vacation.  We had the fun of vacationing with Nik’s mother, brother, sister-in-law, two nephews, and also some family friends from a very long time ago.  All told – eight adults and six kids, many of whom spoke Greek! 🙂

001 (533x800)enjoying the hammock in the “cabin” (an amazing place lent to us by a friend)

006 (533x800)a lovely view (to the west) as we hiked the Appalachian Trail (the AT for those in the know) or at least a mile of it!

008 (800x596)Mark and I hiking the AT (see how hard I’m working!  I’m packing a baby!)

015 (800x533)Ellie, Alex, Aunt Nikki, and Yiayia on the AT

026 (800x510)a real life thru-hiker, named “Sunshine”! (Seriously, that’s what he told us his name was.  I asked him because I said he should be wearing a shirt with his name on it so people could cheer for him as he passed them – like in a marathon.  So then we cheered “Go Sunshine!” and he hiked past, on his way to Harper’s Ferry for a friend’s wedding before he continued on to Maine.  By “we”, I really mean “I” because everyone else was quasi-pretending they didn’t know the crazy girl who likes to accost innocent hikers by asking them if they are thru-hikers and then striking up a conversation because “how cool!  a thru-hiker!  I’ve always wanted to meet one ever since I read a book about a guy who hiked the AT!” when really, please, just leave the man alone and let him hike. Sometimes, I surprise myself with my extroverted behavior!  Or perhaps I should admit to being just like my dad in this respect!)

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031 (800x533)Ellie with her cousin, aunt, and honorary baby cousin

*And yes, Ryan, I chose this post title on purpose and yes, I know it’s an Indigo Girl song.  I’m not totally clueless when it comes to pop culture! 🙂  

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“Our Whole Family!” (don’t want to give Mark all the blog love tonight!)

Ellie has progressed to the “draw people with heads and legs” stage and today, inspired by some fun different shaped paper, she drew our whole family and then asked me to label them.  I especially love the little Mark and all of our big eyes!

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*They were outdated Food Pantry shopping lists from our church that I snagged off the welcome table a couple weeks ago.  I found it fascinating how she immediately started drawing differently with them vs. how she might have drawn with a full sheet of paper.   This inspires me to give her different shapes of paper regularly!

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Proof that He’s Greek

Mark eats tzatziki straight, with gusto!  (And look at those fork skills!)

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Sleep Yoga

I guess this is comfortable – he sleeps this way a lot!

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First Bread

Ellie has been quite happily helping me make our sandwich bread (rather, form the loaves) for almost two years now.  We have our routine – I roll it out the first time and fold it up, she rolls it flat the second time, I finish the rolling, we both roll it into a log, pinch the seam, tuck in the ends, she lifts into the pan, and then punches it down with her fists.  A month ago, she dissolved into tears and then a big tantrum because she wanted to make bread all by herself (i.e Mama not touching the dough AT ALL EVER).  So, two weeks ago, when I next made bread, I allocated a lump of bread just for her and she did the whole process as I described above, but by herself.

Here’s the result!

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At her request, she ate crusts (i.e. end pieces), as we call them in my family.  Nik doesn’t think they should be called “crusts” because every slice of bread has a crust on it but I disagree.  Clearly, we fight about words a lot.  We’re still fighting about ouchie vs. boo-boo!

005 (800x533)Enjoying the fruits of her labor!

007 (800x533)After some convincing, she shared with her brother too!

We’ve since made bread one more time and again, she made her own loaf.  I think this will be what we do from now on.  It’s a win-win for me – she’s happy because she’s making bread, “all by myself, Mama!!!” and I’m happy because while she’s slowly making her way through the bread process, I’m cruising along, forming bread way faster than when she’s “helping”.  Now, of course, Mark wants to help too so here we go again – teaching another child to make bread!

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June Sewing: A Quilted Tote (for me!)

After doing a bunch of sewing for other people and for our home, I decided that I was finally just going to sew something fun that I got to keep (even though my “must sew” list just keeps growing out of control).  I think my Easter 2013 skirt was the last time I sewed something for myself.  So it was about time!

I’ve had the “Perfect Quilted Totes” pattern from Oh Fransson for a few months and I’ve been looked forward to making it because I wanted to learn several of the techniques that she combines into one simple bag.  Although I made plenty of mistakes while learning how to make the bag, I had a lot of fun making it!

The outside of the bag is sewn using the “quilt as you go” technique (a new one for me).  It resulted in a really cool quilting pattern, which no one will ever see, except in this picture.

038 (800x533)the “two focal point side”

I choose to use the IKEA bug fabric (last seen in Ellie’s diaper bag) along with scraps of pink and green as my color scheme.  This resulted in a busier look than I was really aiming for and left me a bit disappointed in the overall look.  But a very kind friend saw it and reminded me that people pay lots of money for designer bags that look just like this so perhaps I should just embrace this one!

073 (800x533)side one, with one focal point (The middle green section, with four different fabrics, is a scrap leftover from making Noah’s guitar strap.  I knew I’d use it eventually!)

074 (800x533)side two, with two focal points

075 (800x533)the bottom

The inside has a pocket panel with a slip pocket and a zippered pocket above it.  Learning how to make that zippered pocket was one of the skills I wanted to take away from this project and it was surprisingly easy!

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Thanks to quilt batting, duck cloth, and all that quilting (rather than interfacing), the bag is super strong and stands up on its own beautifully.  The straps ended up a bit short.  I should have tried them out before sewing them in.  Next time, I’ll add 2-3 inches.

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And, to give you the scale of the bag, here’s my two crazy helpers holding it for me (with  the magnetic snap closed).

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I’m planning to enter this one into the state fair at the end of the summer so it’s going into storage for now and won’t make its full debut into our life until September! 🙂

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Eight to Celebrate Seven!

Today, Nik and I are remembering seven wonderful years of being married.  To help celebrate, here are eight pictures, one from each year, plus a bonus!

2007, on a sunset cruise in St. John, U.S. Virgin Islands (during our honeymoon)

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2008, in Greece, on the island of Santorini,

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2009, at the Oregon coast with my family

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2010, the “Baby B is coming soon” photo shoot

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2011, in Alaska (Hi Ellie!)

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2012,  in England

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2013, on Easter Sunday (Hi Mark!)

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2014, our most recent family picture, from April

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I’m so glad we said “I do!” seven years ago!

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Join Us Tomorrow and Learn How To Be “Bay-Wise”!

Tomorrow morning (Saturday, 6/21), Baltimore Master Gardeners will be Bay-Wise certifying our yard at 9:30 am. If you’re interested in learning about simple landscape practices that improve water quality and the health of our local waterways, you’re welcome to join us!  Some of what qualifies us to be certified as “Bay-Wise” also equates to quazi-lazy/easier gardening, as in, we don’t fertilize or water our lawn.  For our lawn and the rest of our yard, we have a “you don’t give us anything, we don’t give you anything” policy.  So nothing gets watered or taken care of (other than weeding/pruning to keep it under control) unless it’s useful to us.  And grass really isn’t useful. We also grow native species of trees and plants as much as we can, use a push lawn mower, grow our fruits and vegetables organically, and a few other things.  I’ll try to take some pictures tomorrow during the certification to post about what we do.  It’s pretty easy and it’s good to know that the way we garden is beneficial for our local water quality, the Chesapeake Bay, and our kids too.

Hopefully, we’ll see some of you tomorrow morning at 9:30!

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Mold, Clarifying Definitions, Rage, Air Conditioners, and Craigslist

We searched Craiglist for 2-3 weeks to find an window air conditioner for our living room.  After a fairly creepy exchange with one seller (who kept asking for our home address so he could deliver it to us – ummm, NO!), we found the perfect one, picked it up last Thursday, and brought it home, thrilled that we’d saved quite a bit of money and kept something out of a landfill.  Monday night, we installed it in our window (just in advance of Tuesday’s major heat wave) and with the light shining through the back of it, we discovered that it was infested with mold.  Not just a little bit of mold either – there was mold everywhere you could see.  We were horrified.  We didn’t think that the sellers had purposefully sold us a health hazard but rather that they themselves hadn’t noticed it either (i.e. we were not assigning negative intent to their actions).

So, naively thinking that they would be as horrified as we were, I called them back to let them know what had happened and to ask for our money back.  The husband answered and was a little taken aback but said yes and then we arranged that we would take it back to them the next day for a refund.  About five minutes later, the wife called me back, yelling at me (plus I could hear the husband yelling the same in the background), saying that absolutely no way would she be giving me my money back, that I’d bought it as is, that I’d better just get some vinegar and clean it, that she didn’t care about my children’s health (in response to me saying something to that effect), that I had no right to ask for a refund, and then she hung up on me.

I was FURIOUS, angrier than I’ve been in a very long time.  I was also sobbing because really, I could have handled it up until she told me that she didn’t take any responsibility for my children’s health and that it was basically my problem.

To me, when you buy something “as is”, the seller has declared that there are problems with what you’re buying and you’re acknowledging that you’re buying something with issues.  “As is” doesn’t (to me) mean, “I’m allowed to sell you something which I claim is in perfect working order but then if there’s something drastically wrong with it, I can just tell you that you’re stuck with it.”  (See – that’s where “clarifying definitions” comes in.)

I was so angry I was looking up small claims court and how to file.  For the record, $100 (what we paid) isn’t worth troubling the courts for.  In the meantime, Nik, thankfully, was much calmer than I am and he called them back and in a message, basically said, “You’re right.  You have the right to tell us that we have to keep the air conditioner.  But we’re asking you from common goodness to acknowledge that you accidentally sold us a non-usable item and to give us our money back.”  Meanwhile, I was showering, crying, and really not doing a good job pulling myself together.

Eventually, the woman called Nik back, having calmed down, and she did agree to take it back and refund our money.  I’m really grateful for that although to me, the money wasn’t as big of a deal as the way she’d treated me.  Regardless, I’m really grateful that she decided to do the right thing and refund our money.  That night, we went out and bought a new AC unit and it worked beautifully this week, thankfully (since the heat index was near/over 100 for Tuesday and Wednesday).  The next day, Nik did take it back to them and they refunded our money.

So, some lessons learned from all of this:

  1. Be careful when buying used AC units. If you Google this, there are basically two camps, one which says it’s no big deal and the other that says you should never buy a used AC unit off of Craigslist (or anywhere else), precisely because of this mold issue.
  2. If you do have window AC units, check the ones you have now to make sure they don’t have mold growing in them.  We checked our other ones and found lots and lots of dust accumulated on filters (because clearly we’ve been very lazy about cleaning them up until this point) but thankfully no mold infestations.
  3. Make sure you are really up front with the people that you buy or sell things from off of Craigslist (or any similar service).  Being clear on expectations will make life much better.
  4. If you ever buy anything used from me and it turns out I sold you something unusable, I promise to be mortified, feel terrible about it, and refund your money immediately.
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Weeding in a Torrential Downpour (or what a mom does to get a little alone time)

Tuesday night, Mark and I were outside after dinner, having a lovely time.  I was weeding and he was happily digging with his beloved trowel.  Then, the rain started.  We were under a tree (tidying up a mulch ring) and for a while, the branches were sufficient cover.  Soon, the rain picked up, the branches weren’t enough anymore and Mark started to complain.  I took him in and said to Nik, “I’m a little tempted to just go back out and finish the job.”  It had been so wonderfully cool outside and I did have a bit of a deadline on my hands (i.e. must get the weeding done before the giant pile of mulch is delivered at the end of the week).

So I stayed out in the rainstorm, weeded for about a half hour, got completely, thoroughly, deliciously soaking wet, and wow, was the weeding easy!

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004 (800x800)totally soaked and feeling great!

P.S. Yes, it was probably a bad idea to be out in a thunderstorm but I was under or close to trees the whole time so that’s safer, right? 🙂

P.P.S To the master gardeners reading this (Hi Zona! Hi Lynn!) or anyone else who gardens, yes, I know it’s a terrible idea to work in soil when it’s super wet.  It strips the soil of its natural structure (like earthworms tunnels, etc), compacts it, and generally makes it not hospitable for life.  However, I was primarily weeding in an area that’s between our sidewalk and driveway and we walk on it all the time.  So I wasn’t worried about it.

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