KIOS: Eating, Part 7: The Food Rules

This post is part of my series, “Kickin’ It Old Skool: Why and How We Are Old-Fashioned” or KIOS for short.  If you’re new to the series, please read my disclaimer before continuing on.  I’m keeping a table of contents to this series here so you can see what I’ve already written about and what more there is to come.

For the next several posts, I’m going to walk through specifically what food we eat, our thought processes for why we eat what we do, and how we obtain the food we eat.  The following rules are what we use to generally guide the purchasing, preparing, and consuming of all the food we eat, particularly what we buy from the grocery store.

Michael Pollan’s often quoted saying from In Defense of Food has been very helpful to us.

“Eat food. Not too much. Mostly plants”

In that same book, he also offers seven additional rules for eating.  We particularly try to follow these three:

1. Eat only food that your great-grandmother would recognize (Bread and butter? Yes.  Twinkies and Cheetos? No.)

2. Don’t buy anything from the store with more than five ingredients or with ingredients you don’t understand or can’t pronounce.

3. Shop in the perimeter of the grocery store, rather than in the middle aisles.  (This helps you to buy ingredients for real food, rather than processed, prepackaged food.)

Taking those four rules into account means that we try to do the following things:

1.  We only eat real food, not, as Michael Pollan calls them, “food-like substances.”  We attempt to only eat food that exists in nature and can be cooked at home.  It’s impossible for me to make Cheetos at home so as much as I crave them and long for them every time I see a bag of them (seriously, I do, I’m wishing I was eating some right now), I haven’t eaten any in almost 3 years because well, they’re not real food.  We do eat plain potato chips occasionally (there’s a bag in our cupboard right now) because we could make them if we really wanted to.  We try to keep chips as a special treat though, not an every-day snack.

2. We try to eat sensible portions.  My sensible portions as a nursing, pregnant mama are not the same as Nik’s sensible portions! 🙂  But we do try to eat just until we’re full, even stopping before we are too full (another of Pollan’s suggestions).  We’ve been eating full-fat, non-diet food for four-plus years now and have lost, rather than gained, weight.  Eating not too much food works.  Plus, it saves money.

3. We try to load up our meals with vegetables and fruit and treat meat as an accent rather than the main idea of the meal.  We also limit our meat consumption to dinner and very rarely eat meat for breakfast or lunch.  Additionally, I always aim to have at least 3-4 meatless meals a week, so that we’re basically eating half our dinners with and half of our dinners without meat.  (We’re better at doing this in the fall/winter/spring than we are in the summer.  It’s just so easy to throw some veges and meat on the grill in the summer.  I’m trying to come up with some good meatless summer meal options though!)

4.  We avoid buying food at the grocery store with weird ingredients that we don’t understand or with long ingredient lists.  That’s another reason why we only buy plain potato chips.  Their ingredient list is potatoes, oil, and salt.  Cheetos?  There’s at least 24 ingredients in Cheetos, including MSG, artificial flavoring, and artificial coloring.  Go here (the official Cheetos website) and then click on “See Nutrition Label” if you’re interested in reading the whole ingredient list.  Even salt and pepper potato chips have weird ingredients (as in, they don’t just add pepper).

Of course, we’re not perfect in this regard.  Last weekend, we went to Artscape and a company was giving out bags and bags of of hummus popped chips for free.  I was hungry (when is a pregnant woman not hungry?) and so I took a few bags.  And yes, we ate them.  And yes, there were way more than 5 ingredients in those chips!  I did read the ingredient label carefully and there were no egregiously bad ingredients (such as those I listed above for Cheetos).  In fact, the chips were remarkably innocuous for being fake food, which is why I took them.  I’ll never buy them but I did eat them for free!

We also still buy a couple things that blatantly break the 5-ingredient/no weird ingredients rule, namely tortillas and mayonnaise.  They’re on my list of things to replace but it just hasn’t happened yet.

A few posts ago, I mentioned that I’d be writing about what I would do if I couldn’t buy anything locally.  These food rules are a great place to start.  You can follow all of them and still buy all of your food in any grocery store in America.  If you just followed these rules, you would have a gone a long way down the road toward eating sustainably.  I would be ecstatic if everyone I knew just took these few simple* steps.  It’s where we started and what we continue to do today.

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*By “simple”, I mean “easy to understand.”  I know they’re not so easy to implement.  Preparing real food takes time and planning.  Eating real food takes adjusting taste buds, getting used to new food, forgetting old loves.  This is hard for adults but particularly harder for kids, who are used to eating all that crazily-colored and delicious food.  I still miss eating Cheetos and that’s part of why I’m determined that Ellie will never eat a single Cheeto, at least not one provided by me and not when I can help it.  I don’t want her to imprint on any food except for real food.  Cherries, yes.  Cheetos, NO!

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This is the article that the “Eat food…” quote originates from.

This article has a good summary of all of the rules from In Defense of Food.

Here’s more funny food rules if you need a few more!

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She Keeps Us Guessing, That’s For Sure

For the past several months, Ellie has generally woken up around 7:00 am, napped from around noon until 2:00 and gone to sleep around 7:30 at night.   Those times weren’t set in stone, naturally, but we generally could predict when she was tired and would want to sleep.  It was a nice feeling.  I could plan our days fairly easily and it was good to know she was getting enough sleep.

Everything got thrown off while we were on vacation.  After we got home, it took about a week before we were able to fully reset her clock and get her back into a good sleeping routine but as of a couple days ago, we finally felt like we were back to normal.

Then on Wednesday, she napped from 12:30 to 3:00 and then stayed up until 10:15.  10:15!  She wasn’t a bit tired at 8:00.  She was running around, “bright eyed and bushy tailed”, running races, having a grand old time.  Nik and I were exhausted, lying on the couch, doing nothing.  Ellie, on the other hand, seemed to be feeling great!  She finally went to sleep and slept until  7:00.

Then yesterday, she didn’t take a nap.  That’s the first time that’s ever happened. Again, she was super happy all day.  She started to fall apart around 5:00 but we managed to keep her sane until around 6:45, when she fell asleep in about three minutes.

Then this morning she woke up at 4:30.  4:30!  And now she’s asleep for her nap of the day at 8:30 am.

There’s no predicting what this girl will do.  Just another good reminder that God’s in control and not me!

On the positive side, I got the bathroom cleaned by 7:30 this morning!

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Happy Birthday Ezra!

We hope you have a fabulous day celebrating being FIVE!!

Thanks for helping Ellie open her presents on her first birthday.  We hope you have fun opening some presents of your own!

They were having fun, honestly, even if they aren’t smiling!

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A Rare Belly Shot (and Pregnancy Update)

We never seem to remember to take shots of my expanding belly so they’re going to be few and far between around here.  Don’t hold your breath for the next one.  However, we did take advantage of being on vacation to take one so here it is:

Baby B2, at 16 weeks, on his/her first trip to Windsor Castle (the real one)

So as you can see, I’m growing because B2 is growing and now the only things that fit me on the bottom on two pairs of athletic shorts.  All my regular shorts are too small and I’m not big enough for maternity clothes yet.

I feel great!  I pulled out of my first trimester awfulness just about a week before we left on our trip.  I’m so grateful to the Lord for his timing in this pregnancy because if we’d gotten pregnant a month later, I don’t know how I would have survived all the traveling we did.  As it was,  I felt great throughout the whole trip and didn’t start feeling big at all until the very last few days.

I’m proud to announce that I kept my weight gain under very good control while we were on vacation.  I even managed to survive the minefield that is, “incredibly delicious and abundant Greek cooking.”  So all is well on that front, for which I am grateful.

I am suffering a bit more from pain (feeling like contractions, but just constant) than I did with Ellie’s pregnancy.  The midwife says that it’s probably round ligament discomfort.  I’m also carrying a 25-pound toddler, which I didn’t have to do when said toddler was in my womb.  But if I lie down and rest, the pain goes away, which is a good excuse for me to lie around!

I have a list a mile long entitled, “To Do Before The Baby Comes.”  (Even me feeling up to making a list of any sort proves I’m feeling better!) First on the list, sewing living and dining room shades.  These were also on the same list before Ellie came and I’m determined to have them done before B2 comes!

That being said, I’m off to sew!

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KIOS: Eating, Part 6: My Most Important Tip for Food Preservation

This post is part of my series, “Kickin’ It Old Skool: Why and How We Are Old-Fashioned” or KIOS for short.  If you’re new to the series, please read my disclaimer before continuing on.  I’m keeping a table of contents to this series here so you can see what I’ve already written about and what more there is to come.

Before I [finally] start writing specifically about what kind of food we eat, I thought I should give you some tips (or really just one important one) on food preservation.  You’ll notice that we freeze or can a vast amount of food in the summer and fall to eat in the winter and spring.  If you’re at all interested in eating seasonally, then here’s my #1 tip:

Buy an extra freezer.

We started out with a Kenmore 9-cubic foot chest freezer and that was plenty for us for a few years.  But once I decided that I wanted to start baking bread, bagels, etc in quantity, along with making chicken stock and other bulky items, it became clear that we needed more freezer space.  So just before Ellie was born, we bought a 16-cubic foot upright freezer.

Yes, my friends, we have not one, but two, extra freezers in our basement.  A bit ridiculous but during the winter, they’re both usually packed full.  Right now, everything fits easily into the chest freezer because we’ve eaten up [almost] all our stores from last year.  But check in with me in November and you’ll see that they’re both packed full.

Even if you live in a tiny apartment, you’ll be able to find space for a small chest freezer.  Cover it with some fabric and put some pretty things on top of it and it will be a nice addition to your living room!

We didn’t notice an increase in our electric bill when we got the chest freezer and weren’t paying attention to see if it went up with the upright.  But, most freezers usually only add two or three dollars a month to your electric bill.  The money we save by filling up those freezers in the summer more than covers the electric bill!

Finally, chest freezers are great but the bottom of them can turn into no-man’s land with five-year old food if you’re not careful.  To fix that problem, we rarely put anything directly into the freezer.  Instead, we have a few boxes that we use to organize the freezer.  In the beginning, we also kept a meticulous inventory, such as, “green beans, quart bags, 4, paper box.”  That way, I knew I just had to pull out the paper box to find the four quart bags of green beans.  Now, we’re not that committed (post-baby!), but I still try to keep vegetables in some boxes, meat in others to make it easy to located what I want.  We also pull everything out every summer to defrost the freezer and organize it.

I realize having an extra freezer isn’t exactly “old-fashioned” but it does help us eat seasonally, which is old-fashioned.  I highly recommend that you get one too!

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Living in the Country (or the difference a tree makes)

A few summers ago, I was a mentor in our church’s summer tutoring program.  We had been giving tickets to an Orioles game for all our students so I was driving three kids and a chaperone down to the stadium.  The mom asked me where I lived and I told her, “Charles Village.” Charles Village is a neighborhood in Baltimore.  It’s definitely deep within the city but also has a lot of big trees.  Her response was, “Oh, it feels like the country there.”  I was new enough to Baltimore and city living to have no idea what she was talking about.  Charles Village?  The country?  CV is rows and rows and rows of rowhouses!  There’s concrete and brick everywhere!  It is anything but the country!

But as I got to know Baltimore better, I came to understand that in many neighborhoods in Baltimore, there are few to no trees.  A block with no trees makes a block in Charles Village indeed feel like the country.

I was reminded of that experience yesterday as Ellie and I left our house on a 99-degree day to go visit some friends who have central air (a nice commodity on such a day!).  During the storm that happened while we were in Greece, the tree across the street from our house fell down.  I loved that tree.  It was amazingly tall and got beautiful yellow tulip-shaped flowers midway through the summer.  Our house itself didn’t get direct shade from it but it definitely shaded our yard and the surrounding streets.

A photo emailed to us by our neighbor, after the majority of the tree had been cleared from the street.

Now that the tree is gone, I really miss it. I miss being able to rest my eyes on it from our office and living room windows.  Our house is noticeably brighter and hotter.  The streets even feel hotter because so much more sun is getting to the asphalt to be absorbed.

Trees are indeed a quality of life issue. It will be a long time before a new tree can replace the one that we lost.  Our house now feels just a little bit less like we’re in the country.  (Because really, we’re not in the country at all but when you have trees, it sure helps.)

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When Having the Right Tools Makes All the Difference

A couple months ago, I wrote about how having a new rotary cutter and sharp blade had transformed my sewing experience.

This morning, Ellie and I watched a State Highways crew use their big machine to turn all the branches that were obscuring our sidewalk into mulch.  There were four men working and it took them less than half an hour to do a job that we had been dreading.  We thought we were responsible for cleaning up those branches.  We figured we’d have to borrow a friend’s truck, load it up (maybe two loads), and drive it to the dump.  A job that would have taken us hours took them just a few minutes.  Honestly, I wanted to go down and kiss those men and give them cookies and tell them they were angels.  I settled for just telling them, “THANK YOU!!!”

We have high quality pots, pans, and knives and I know I’m a better cook because of them.  My cooking skills have improved greatly in the past five years, partly because I just cook so much more now but also because I have the right tools to use to allow me to accomplish my cooking tasks well.

When you have the right tools, a task suddenly becomes much easier.  Amazing how that works!

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We’re Home!

After a wonderful  three and a half week whirlwind tour of Europe, we’re grateful to back home again!  We spent time in England with my family, time in Greece with Nik’s family, and threw in a bonus stopover in Iceland on our way home.  Nik fulfilled a tennis coach’s dream and got to go to Wimbledon (even sat in Centre Court!).  We did lots of swimming in the wonderfully warm Mediterranean and ate lots of great food wherever we went.  Most of all, we loved seeing our families and especially watching the mutual love fest between Ellie and all her newly-met relatives.  All in all, it was a great trip!  I’m sure I’ll share some pictures sometime “soon” but I’m not making any promises as to when.  We have a lot of catching up to do around here.  You should see the weeds that grew in our absence!

P.S. For those of you who were wondering about the crazy storms in Maryland a couple weeks ago, thankfully our house was spared any damage.  Our neighbor across the street lost a gigantic tree that easily could have done major damage to either his house or ours.  We are so grateful that it fell the way it did (actually opposite of the way it naturally was leaning), although we’re sad for our neighbor who lost his truck, and also sad for the loss of that magnificent tree.  We have an exceedingly loyal friend who put ice in our freezers and rescued our food from certain thawing over our 3-day power outage.  Thank you Julie (and Ben too!)!!!!!!!!!  All in all, we came out just fine and are grateful to our friends and neighbors who kept us posted while we were worrying in Greece.  We figured it must be something major when we saw Governor O’Malley talking on the news with Greek subtitles!

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KIOS: Eating, Part 5: Can We Make It Ourselves?

This post is part of my series, “Kickin’ It Old Skool: Why and How We Are Old-Fashioned” or KIOS for short.  If you’re new to the series, please read my disclaimer before continuing on.  I’m keeping a table of contents to this series here so you can see what I’ve already written about and what more there is to come.

When we started on this food journey several years ago, another question we asked ourselves was, “Can we make this ourselves?”  If the answer was “yes”, then we decided we wanted to move towards actually making it ourselves rather than buying it at the grocery store.

Right away, we started making strawberry jam for Nik and orange marmalade for me.  That was easy!  Then we moved on to making pickles, canning peaches, and canning other stuff too (like pickled green beans).  I made yogurt for awhile but stopped because it just seemed like too much trouble.

About a year and a half ago, I decided that I wanted to start making our own bread.  Since then, we haven’t bought any sandwich bread.  Hooray!  I also started baking our own bagels.  Additionally, I bake muffins and cookies that we use as snack food (in substitution for crackers, granola bars, etc that we might have bought instead).

We also decided that we didn’t want to buy cold cereal any more.  So I started making granola and steel cut oatmeal to eat for breakfast instead.

We started cooking our own beans and freezing them in meal-sized portions, rather than buying canned beans.  It’s remarkably easy, way cheaper than buying them in cans (even when buying organic dried beans), and you don’t have to worry about BPA contamination!

Nik took a cooking class a couple years ago and learned how to make homemade pasta.  We still eat probably 95% store-bought pasta but we aspire to eat more homemade pasta – it’s amazingly better and delicious!

So what’s left? Well, we know how to make pita and tortillas.  We just haven’t gotten a system going for making enough at a time to make it worth our while.  We want to try making cheese (especially mozzarella and feta).  I need to be consistent about making yogurt. I know I can make our own mayonnaise and mustard, I just haven’t done it yet.   I want to perfect a couple different cracker recipes.  If we made all those things too, we would have almost eliminated the processed food that we buy from the grocery store.

And that would be awesome!

Side note:  Yes, making all of this takes time.  If I wasn’t a stay-at-home mom with Ellie, I wouldn’t have nearly enough time to be able to do all of this.  When I was working full time, I did some but couldn’t do nearly as much.  Bread in particular was difficult because of the long rising times.   Now that I’m staying at home with Ellie though, I find that I enjoy having these things to do.  It helps give us a rhythm and purpose to our days and week.

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KIOS: Eating, Part 4: What We Don’t Do

This post is part of my series, “Kickin’ It Old Skool: Why and How We Are Old-Fashioned” or KIOS for short.  If you’re new to the series, please read my disclaimer before continuing on.  I’m keeping a table of contents to this series here so you can see what I’ve already written about and what more there is to come.

Before I go any further and write about what we actually eat, I thought I should tell you a few of the things that we don’t do.

  • We don’t expect others to eat the same way we do.
  • We don’t expect other people to serve us different food when we go to their house for a meal.  In other words, we accept the hospitality given to us and don’t complain! In the interest of full disclosure, this is not to say that I don’t sometimes in my head think, “I wonder if __________ is in season right now?”  I don’t do this because I’m condemning the other person for serving that food. (See the first sentence of this point.) Rather, it’s just pure habit at this point.  I do it every time I buy a vegetable or fruit and I just can’t stop myself!
  • We very rarely go out to eat unless we’re eating at a restaurant that shares the same values about food that we do (the exceptions primarily being if we are going out with other people and someone else has chosen the location).  This means that there is a very small selection of restaurants that we want to go to in Baltimore.  It also means that those restaurants are more expensive and so we don’t go to them that often.  This also means that we don’t eat fast food if we can at all avoid it (with the rare exception of Chipotle, maybe 2-3 times a year).
  • We don’t spend our own money on meat, dairy, eggs, etc that have been raised in inhumane conditions. However, if we are offered such items as part of a meal through the hospitality of others, we do eat it.

Do you see what I’m getting at here?  In our own home, with our own money, we have certain guiding principles and rules that we follow.  We don’t expect others to do exactly what we do though and we have chosen to prioritize our relationships with other people over our food choices.  This doesn’t mean that we don’t desire others to make similar decisions about food, particularly when it comes to the care and raising of the animals that we eat.  However, we certainly don’t expect that every person or every family will choose to eat exactly what we do.

So don’t feel like you have to walk on eggshells around us when it comes to food, OK? 🙂

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