Daily Gratitude

My friends and family:

For the month of November, I am going to try to post something every day that I’m grateful for.  Today, I don’t really have time to explain why I want to do this.  It’s coming out of our covenant group Bible study, where we just discussed the importance of practicing the discipline of gratitude.  Hopefully soon I’ll be able to flesh it out more than that.  But, in the attempt to get going and not let that stop me,  here’s my first post!

Daily Gratitude #1
Today, I am grateful for the safe arrival of my family – Mom, Chris, Katie, Addie, and Alex – to Alaska, having survived the long drive up the Alcan in the winter.  Welcome home!

P.S. Would you like to join me?  Blog it!  Facebook it!  Twitter it (even though I don’t read Twitter)!  E-mail me!  Pray it!  Anyway you want, please join me.

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Happy Birthday Noah!

Happy 9th Birthday Noah!

Thanks for being my first nephew!

Love, Uncle Nik and Aunt Laura

P.S. I chose this photo of Noah (the little boy in the front) because one of my favorite memories of leaving our wedding reception is Noah being right there at the door, wanting to connect with us before we left.  I think he was probably the last person I touched/hugged before we got into the car and drove away.  Thank you for your love for us Noah – we love you very much!  And I should probably point out – this picture was taken 2 1/2 years ago and Noah isn’t a little boy any more!

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Fun times

Last night, my friend Julie and I saw the play, “The Importance of Being Earnest” by Oscar Wilde at Centerstage.  It was fabulous.  The movie is really great too and I’d highly recommend it if you haven’t seen it!

And in other news, I made this cake, Mexican Monkey Cake on Tuesday night for a school function on Wednesday.  It was easy and delicious and still tasted great today when we finished off the last of it.  The only change I made was to chop up chocolate bars (milk, dark, and unsweetened baking bars) to get the chocolate because I thought I didn’t have any chocolate chips.  I did find some later but I think that in the end, the cake was much improved by the addition of real chocolate – particularly dark!  In case you’re wondering – it’s “Monkey” for the bananas and “Mexican” for the cinnamon/chocolate combo.  Come up with an excuse to make it soon!

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Compliment

Usually my friend Julie and I go to the farmer’s market together on Saturday mornings.  It’s our standing date!  But this weekend, she was sick and I had lots to buy (namely the winter’s supply of broccoli).  So Nik came with me.  We were at the stand of my favorite farmer.  He always says something to the effect of, “It’s our Alaska girl!”  Anyway, he said something like this to Nik, “So you’re the husband, huh?  You went up there and stole one of the cuties and there aren’t even very many cuties up there!”

How’s that for a compliment?!

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Happy Birthday Alex!

Happy 2nd Birthday Alex!  We love you very much!

Love,
Uncle Nik and Aunt Laura

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My Crunchy Granola Girl experiment – Part 1

Here’s Part 2A and Part 2B.

When we went on our first date (not that I knew it was a date), Nik came away with the impression that I was a bit of a “crunchy, granola girl.”  And rightly so really – I had just come from washing my car, having changed my shirt in the Trader Joe’s parking lot.  So he was lucky I had a clean shirt on but my hair was in a braid, I had very little makeup on, and I was wearing Birkenstocks.  A clear “granola” tip-off, right?

Well, I’ve never considered myself to be all that crunchy but I guess I do fall nearer that end of the spectrum, particularly compared to most women I’ve met on the East Coast.  Perhaps it’s because I grew up in rural Alaska but I’ve never been quite so interested in shoes, makeup, and clothes as many women.  Perhaps, this is also because I’ve never felt all that comfortable or accomplished in those areas either.  When I moved to Baltimore, it probably took me 3-4 years before I felt like I was dressing appropriately for social events that I was going to.  I would show up in jeans and a T-shirt and be severely underdressed – for something that I thought was just a little party!  So I had to make a conscious effort to buy more skirts, to dress up more, and it has worked.  Worked so well, in fact, that now, when I go home to Alaska, I often feel like I’m overdressed.

So anyway, over the past few months (since March), I’ve been on a bit of a “granola” experiment – mainly, I’ve stopped washing my hair with commercial shampoo.  I’ve been making my own shampoo from a recipe that I found (and have since heavily adapted) in ReadyMade magazine (a DIY Martha Stewart-esque magazine).  I also only wash my hair twice a week – a big change from my 6-7 days a week addiction before.

My hair definitely went through a season of months where I thought that I was going to have to shave it off.  It was exceedingly greasy, didn’t want to do anything that I wanted to, and basically drove me crazy.  But then, sort of gradually, I realized that my hair was back to normal.  Or I should say, it is back to its true normal – not the chemically-induced normal that I had lived with my whole life.   I don’t have to use any sort of gel, conditioner, or styling products.  My hair is also the best shape that it’s probably ever been in.  I haven’t had my hair cut since January and I have very few split ends.  I think I can attribute that to three things – the new shampoo, less washing and hence less hot hair-drying, and I now use a wide-toothed comb instead of a brush.

So yes, I’m one of those weird girls who only washes my hair twice a week.  I figure that I save at least an hour a week that I used to spend on doing my hair.  (Sadly, I’m using up that saved hour commuting to my new middle school but that’s a whole different story).

And guess what?  I like being one of those girls!  I like knowing that I’m not putting any dangerous chemicals onto my hair, into my body, or into the Bay.  And my hair likes it too.

Part 2:  The technical stuff (as in why I stopped using commercial shampoo, why my hair freaked out in the beginning, and the recipe for my homemade stuff if you want to try it too).  Coming up soon – no promises.  (It took me three weeks to finish this post!)

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Nothing like a party for getting things done!

We had a birthday potluck on Saturday night for both Nik and me – Nik’s birthday was on Friday and mine is in 2 weeks.  My birthday weekend will be taken up by Brody and Lisa’s wedding (rehearsal/dinner on my birthday, wedding the next day) so we decided to celebrate together.  We roasted a leg of lamb on Nik’s new charcoal grill (a birthday present from Tina) and fun was had by all.I finished one cushion this summer and just hadn’t quite pushed myself to finish the other 3 so I decided that this needed to be it!  I finished the last one on Friday night and here they are!  (True confessions – I haven’t sewn the buttons on the back of 3 of them but I’ll get to that eventually.)

I am particularly most proud of the piping/cording, which I made myself.  In the process, I learned how to make bias tape, how to make piping and how to to make button back pillows.

The orange of the pillows doesn’t exactly match our orange wall but after over 2 years, I finally feel like we’ve pulled the orange wall and the green couches together!

Now to figure out what kind of curtains to put in the living room!

 

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Why Mom and Lois Lowry would be great friends

During the Q&A:

Kid in the audience:  Me and my friends are reading The Giver in class…[asks question]

Lois Lowry:  Before I answer your question, let me point out that you said ‘Me and my friends’ and you should have said, ‘My friends and I’

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Does it work this way in your society?

With my 8th grade class this year, we’re studying The Giver, a Newberry Award winning book by Lois Lowry.  Don’t get me started on how hard it is for my students, or how ridiculous it is that my high beginning students are expected to do grade level curriculum.  You try taking 8th grade Language Arts in Japanese and see if you can pass.  Anyway, I’m doing my best to make it accessible for them.

We’ve only read about 5 chapters in the book so far and this past week we wrote a compare/contrast essay comparing how the society in The Giver handles the making of family compared to our society.  The kids had to chose three different points from The Giver and compare them to the corresponding point in our society.   In The Giver, the family can only consist of 2 parents, one boy, and one girl and the parents have to apply for and are given the children.

Here is part of a paragraph from one girl’s essay:
“On the other hand, in our own society, a man can have as much as many wifes as long as he is going to take care of them.” 

Really?  Maybe it works that way in B’s society!  I’d be willing to bet that the mainstream American classes don’t get compare/contrast essays like this!

P.S. I highly recommend The Giver.  It’s a great, deeply thought-provoking book.  I got to see Lois Lowry speak yesterday at the Baltimore Book Festival.  She was great and I highly recommend her books (particularly if you speak English fluently).

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Devout Thanksgiving

“Today, I awoke with devout thanksgiving for my friends, the old and the new.”
Ralph Waldo Emerson

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