With thanks to Meggan, enjoy this article from Lauren Winner, one of my favorite authors. If you haven’t read her book: Real Sex: The Naked Truth About Chastity,
then you should (even if you’re married). It was the first compelling argument that I had ever read or heard about chastity that was anything more than, “Cross your legs and JUST SAY NO!!” (which is not a very compelling argument nor is it very useful).
You’ll get a pretty good synopsis of the book from the article, but read the book too!