This morning, I heard this article on NPR about what the Chicago public school district is doing to create a culture of peace and calm in some of their high schools. I was both impressed by what the high schools are doing to help their students and saddened by what the students have to go through every day.
Listening to that article made me think of my second year of teaching. Although I taught in a middle school which is regarded as one of the best in the county (i.e. it should have been pretty calm and peaceful), that particular year we had a feud between two groups of kids (the kids speaking Russian vs. the kids speaking Spanish). It was a very difficult year, one where I lived in almost constant fear that a fight would break out either in my classroom or in the hallway. The following year, peace miraculously came. I originally blogged about this here (in January 2008) but I thought I’d reprint it today because I am still amazed at the miracle the Lord worked in those kids that year.
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Last year, the Russians and the Hispanics HATED each other. I’m not exaggerating. It was a constant feud. We were constantly breaking up fights, mediating disagreements, and trying to tell both sides that they really were not all that different and that fighting was not the answer. I had many a time in my classroom, talking to my classes with the tears just below the surface (and easily heard in my voice) trying to get across to them that they could NOT fight. That they at least had to be kind to each other, even if they didn’t like each other. We brought in interpreters, we did interventions, we did everything we could think of. Nothing seemed to work. Last year was a hard year.
This year, I get notes like this:
(They came in response to my demand that they could not whine about their [assigned] seats any more and they had to write a note to request a change in seat, which they might not have gotten.)
From E., who’s Russian:
To: my mom [her little joke is to call me her mom sometimes]
I want to change my sit. I want to sit next to K. because she is my best friend from Spanish girls. can I sit next to her please.
From K., who’s Hispanic:
Dear Mrs. B, I want to change my sits because In this class, I never sit next to E. so I want to change. Bye.
From E., who’s Russian:
I want change my seat because if I don’t understand something J. can help me and he be friend. of my friend, he help me every day. if I can’t tell teacher, I ask to J. and he help. (I had to heavily edit this one just so you’d understand it. E. struggles with spelling!)
From J., who’s Hispanic:
I want the sit with E. because he is my best friend in this school and that’s why.
I am not exaggerating when I say that last year these four kids (along with many others) absolutely despised each other. Now I see them talking and laughing in the halls. They have fun (sometimes too much!) in my class. I don’t know what happened. I like to think that a little bit of it is all the talking that we did last year. Maybe something soaked in. Maybe their culture shock wore off. Maybe they grew up. I don’t know. But this to me is an example of what heaven will be like. The lion shall lie down with the lamb. Praise the Lord! Bring us peace!
I appreciated reading your post, in light of what happened in my city this afternoon. I needed to be reminded that Peace will come and the hatred will end. Lord pals bring peace to this land.
Thanks Kim – I hadn’t thought about the Jerusalem connection when I posted this (I don’t know if I actually had heard about the bombing yet or not when I posted it). We were discussing peace in the Middle East at my Bible study Wednesday morning and basically came to the conclusion that Lord would have to do the work, one heart at a time, for peace to ever come. So yes, bring us peace!
Pals = peace. Oops!
What I really mean…
Pals = please. Maybe I need to sign up for one of your classes!